Jay Leno says he’s embracing caregiving role for wife with dementia

The former late-night television host is enjoying caring for his wife Mavis, who has advanced dementia, he said in a Thursday interview on In Depth With Graham Bensinger. Leno, 74, is best known for replacing Johnny Carson at the helm of The Tonight Show and is a former standup comedian. Leno likes cooking for her, feeding her, changing her diapers, and being needed, he said. The couple has been married for 45 years.

Leno never had a real challenge in life until he became her caregiver, he said. He said a couple who stays together in difficult times is the definition of love and marriage.

Leno said he often goes through photo flashcards with his wife to help her remember herself and the people around her. He tries to find humor in their situation, he said.

What else did Leno discuss in the interview? Leno said he and his wife never chose to have children—partially because they wanted to travel together during his busy years as a comedian. He also discussed his childhood, career, interactions with political figures, and love for cars. A word of caution: The interview does contain brief sexual references.